Barbara Gayle Allen Lindsey, 56, of Phenix VA, passed away on Saturday, December 24, 2022 at her home. She was born on March 10, 1966. Barbara enjoyed decorating her yard and growing flowers. She is survived by her three children, Crystal Wong of Nathalie VA, Ashley Wimbish (Derrick) of Cumberland VA, and Cody Allen of Phenix VA; and seven grandchildren, (Crystal) Cloe, Chase, Lawrence, Everett, (Ashley) Derrick, Colton, and Waylon. A special thanks to her best friend Jack Pillow of Phenix and Gloria Carter of Appomattox. The family will accept friends and family on January 7, 2022 at Barbara’s home, 4606 Pillow Road Phenix, VA 23959. Come any time between 3:00 – 4:30 p.m. to visit with the family and have refreshments. Any flowers will be received at the same address. Casual dress is fine. “Where do I take this pain of mine, I run but it stays right by my side, so tear me open and pour me out, there’s things inside that scream and shout, And the pain still hates me, so hold me until it sleeps” Arrangements by Burch-Messier Funeral Home, Bedford, 540-586-7360.