
On July 31, 2026, Frances Elizabeth Grizzle Self, ran fully healed into the arms of Jesus. She was born to the late Silas William Grizzle and the late Hattie Frances Ware Grizzle on August 1, 1942 in Castlewood, Virginia. After graduating as salutatorian from Castlewood High School, she quickly moved to Bedford, which she called home for much of the remainder of her life. Although many people knew her from her various jobs at Rubatex, Bedford Weaving Mill, Belding Corticelli and Rapid Printing, her most precious and favorite “job” was being a mother.
She gave so freely and selflessly to her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren and always made sure to know how much they were all loved. Frances shared her love of music with her family by singing to them during childhood and enjoyed listening to them sing to her as they became adults. She always had a hug, kiss and a smile ready at all times and ready with ham, biscuits, and oyster stew on Christmas morning.
Although dementia took a lot of recent memories, it couldn’t take her knowledge of knowing her family, for which they are so grateful.
Along with her parents, Frances was predeceased by her loving husband, Charles “Charlie” Russell Self, Jr., her siblings, Theodore William “Ted” Grizzle and Irene Anna Witt, her son-in-law, Stan Butler, and her grandson, Nicholas Butler. She is survived by her children, Lisa Butler, Hildery “Chuck” Gibbs, Jr. and Julie Carr (Johnny Cash); her grandchildren, Katherine “Kathy” Rogers (Jeff), Elizabeth Butler (Michael Colby), Susan Butler (Nay Clark), Danya Gibbs, and August Carr; granddaughter-in-law, Virginia “Nina” Mihelcic Butler; nine great-grandchildren; her sisters, Virginia Belle “Ginger” Blevins (Jack) and Sarah Nadine Cox (Don); and sister-in-law, Yvonne Grizzle. She had numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins who were all dear to her heart.
The family would like to thank Centra Lynchburg General Hospital’s ICU and Neuro ICU units, especially her doctor, (Doctor K) and her exceptional nurses (Julia, Emily, Michelle, Colton and Kaitlyn). The family would also like to give heartfelt thanks to Johnny Cash for visiting and sharing scripture with Frances as she met Jesus.
As per Frances’s wishes, there will be no service; instead, share a book with a friend, plant some flowers, take a walk, or go bird-watching.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Pecks Baptist Church, 1020 Pecks Road, Bedford, VA.
Arrangements by Burch-Messier Funeral Home, Bedford, 540-586-7360.








